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Do I Need an Intimacy Coach? What Intimacy Coaching Actually Is

Wondering whether you need an intimacy coach? What intimacy coaching actually is, who it helps, how it differs from therapy and sex therapy, and when to see a doctor instead.

Deep Dive · 14 min read

ConfidenceAugust 2026

Sexual Performance Anxiety: Why Sex Starts Feeling Like a Test

Sexual performance anxiety can affect erections, ejaculation, desire, confidence, and intimacy. Here is why the anxiety-sex cycle happens and evidence-informed ways to break it.

Deep Dive · 15 min read

PleasureApril 2026

Unlearning the Performance Script

Many people are not having bad sex. They are performing adequate sex while paying almost no attention to sensation. Here is how the script forms, and how to put it down.

Deep Dive · 9 min read