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Our Sex Life Became Routine: How Predictability Quietly Kills Desire

Routine kills desire because wanting depends on anticipation, and a fully predictable script removes anything to anticipate. Restoring desire means changing the encounter itself — timing, initiation, order and duration — rather than only increasing frequency.

Deep Dive · 5 min read · 1,100 words