Helpline · United States
Partnership Against Domestic Violence (PADV)
Atlanta 24-hour crisis line offering safety planning, shelter and advocacy for domestic violence survivors.
404-873-1766padv.org/contact-us-2Resources
Local support: helplines, clinics and groups
Sometimes the right next step isn't reading, and it isn't coaching either. This is a directory of real services — crisis helplines, sexual health clinics, and support groups — organised by city, so you can find someone near you who does this for a living.
Every listing was checked against the organisation's own published page. Details change, so confirm hours and numbers on their site before travelling. If you're in immediate danger, call your local emergency number — and read what to do if your relationship feels unsafe.
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Atlanta
Helpline · United States
Georgia Statewide Domestic Violence Hotline
24/7 statewide line that connects callers, including in Atlanta, to certified local domestic violence programmes.
1-800-334-2836gcadv.org/get-help/call-24-hour-statewide-hotlineClinic · United States
AID Atlanta
Free HIV and STI testing, PrEP and sexual health services in Atlanta.
800-551-2728www.aidatlanta.org/testingBoston
Helpline · United States
Boston Area Rape Crisis Center (BARCC)
24/7 hotline supporting survivors of sexual violence — including assault by a partner — and their families.
800-841-8371barcc.org/get-help/call-nowClinic · United States
Fenway Health — Sexual Health Services
Boston clinic providing STI testing and sexual health care, with long-standing LGBTQ+ specialisation.
617-267-0900fenwayhealth.org/care/medical/std-testing-servicesChicago
Helpline · United States
Illinois Domestic Violence Hotline (The Network)
24/7 multilingual crisis line for Chicago and all of Illinois, offering safety planning and referrals to local shelters.
877-863-6338the-network.org/illinois-domestic-violence-hotlineClinic · United States
Howard Brown Health — Halsted
Chicago clinic offering sexual health testing, PrEP and LGBTQ-affirming primary care.
773-388-1600howardbrown.org/clinic_location/halstedDenver
Helpline · United States
SafeHouse Denver
24/7 Denver crisis line, shelter and counselling for survivors of domestic violence and their children.
303-318-9989www.safehouse-denver.org/im-experiencing-abuseClinic · United States
Planned Parenthood — Denver Central
Contraception, STI testing and sexual and reproductive health care in Denver.
303-832-5069www.plannedparenthood.org/health-center/colorado/denver/80218/denver-central-health-center-2484-90210Dublin
Helpline · Ireland
Women's Aid National Freephone Helpline
24/7 national freephone helpline offering confidential support to women experiencing domestic abuse.
1800 341 900www.womensaid.ie/get-help/talk-to-usSupport group · Ireland
Women's Aid One-to-One Support (Dublin)
In-person support appointments for women experiencing domestic violence, at several Dublin locations.
www.womensaid.ie/get-help/support-services/find-support-locally/dublinHouston
Helpline · United States
AVDA — Aid to Victims of Domestic Abuse
Houston nonprofit providing legal advocacy, counselling and crisis support for survivors of domestic abuse.
713-224-9911avda.orgClinic · United States
Legacy Community Health
Houston health system offering STI and HIV testing, treatment and PrEP.
832-548-5221www.legacycommunityhealth.org/services/hivstd-screening-treatmentLondon
Helpline · United Kingdom
National Domestic Abuse Helpline (Refuge)
Free, confidential 24-hour helpline covering London and the whole UK, run by the charity Refuge.
0808 2000 247www.nationaldahelpline.org.ukClinic · United Kingdom
56 Dean Street
Free NHS sexual health clinic in Soho specialising in STI and HIV screening, PrEP and LGBTQI+ care.
020 3315 5656www.dean.stLos Angeles
Helpline · United States
LA County Domestic Violence 24-Hour Support
County-wide 24/7 hotline for domestic violence survivors, listed on the City of Los Angeles resource page.
1-800-978-3600www.lacity.org/residents/popular-services/family-health-and-social-services/domestic-violence-resourcesHelpline · United States
Peace Over Violence
Los Angeles crisis line and agency working on domestic violence, sexual assault and stalking.
213-626-3393www.peaceoverviolence.orgClinic · United States
Planned Parenthood Los Angeles
Sexual and reproductive health care, including STI testing, at locations across LA County.
1-800-576-5544www.plannedparenthood.org/planned-parenthood-los-angelesManchester
Support group · United Kingdom
Manchester Women's Aid (Pankhurst Centre)
Advice, safe housing and one-to-one support for women and children affected by domestic and sexual abuse in Manchester.
www.manchesterwomensaid.org/i-need-supportClinic · United Kingdom
The Northern Sexual Health
NHS sexual health service in Manchester: STI testing, contraception, PrEP/PEP and HIV care.
0161 701 1555thenorthernsexualhealth.co.ukMinneapolis
Helpline · United States
Day One Minnesota Crisis Line (Cornerstone)
24/7 crisis line for domestic violence, sexual assault and trafficking survivors across Minneapolis and Minnesota.
1-866-223-1111dayoneservices.org/domestic-violence/help-nowClinic · United States
Planned Parenthood — Minneapolis
Sexual and reproductive health services, including STI testing, in Minneapolis.
612-823-6300www.plannedparenthood.org/health-center/minnesota/minneapolis/55408/minneapolis-clinic-2719-90720New York
Helpline · United States
NYC Family Justice Centers (ENDGBV)
City-run centres connecting survivors of domestic and gender-based violence to safety planning, shelter and legal help. Call 311 to be routed, or 911 in an emergency.
www.nyc.gov/site/ocdv/get-help/get-help.pageClinic · United States
Planned Parenthood of Greater New York
Sexual and reproductive health care across Greater New York, including STI testing and treatment, contraception and virtual appointments.
212-965-7000www.plannedparenthood.org/planned-parenthood-greater-new-york/about/contactPhiladelphia
Helpline · United States
Philadelphia Domestic Violence Hotline (Women Against Abuse)
24/7 citywide hotline for crisis intervention, safety planning and shelter referrals in Philadelphia.
1-866-723-3014www.womenagainstabuse.org/get-help/pdvh-2-2Clinic · United States
Mazzoni Center — Washington West
LGBTQ-focused Philadelphia clinic offering STI and HIV testing, treatment and PrEP navigation.
www.mazzonicenter.org/sexual-health/washington-westSan Francisco
Helpline · United States
SF Domestic Violence Consortium
Coalition that routes San Francisco residents to member domestic violence agencies for counselling, shelter and advocacy.
415-864-4722dvcpartners.orgClinic · United States
San Francisco City Clinic
Free, city-run sexual health clinic providing STI and HIV testing and treatment for anyone 12 and over, regardless of residency.
628-217-6600www.sf.gov/cityclinicSeattle
Helpline · United States
New Beginnings — DVHopeline
Seattle's 24-hour domestic violence helpline, offering emotional support, safety planning and shelter access.
206-737-0242newbegin.org/find-help/helplineClinic · United States
Planned Parenthood — Seattle Health Center
Contraception, STI testing and sexual health care in central Seattle; book online or check the page for current clinic hours.
www.plannedparenthood.org/health-center/washington/seattle/98122/seattle-health-center-3309-91810Sydney
Helpline · Australia
NSW Domestic Violence Line
Free 24/7 NSW Government counselling and referral line for women experiencing domestic violence, covering Sydney.
1800 65 64 63dcj.nsw.gov.au/children-and-families/family-domestic-and-sexual-violence/domestic--family-and-sexual-violence-support-contacts/nsw-domestic-violence-line.htmlClinic · Australia
RPA Sexual Health Clinic
Free, confidential public sexual health clinic in Sydney; no Medicare card required for testing and treatment.
02 9515 1200slhd.health.nsw.gov.au/community-health/services/sexual-healthToronto
Helpline · Canada
Assaulted Women's Helpline
24/7 crisis line for women experiencing abuse across Toronto and Ontario, with counselling and referrals.
1-866-863-0511www.awhl.org/contact-usClinic · Canada
Hassle Free Clinic
Free, confidential STI and HIV testing plus sexual health counselling in downtown Toronto.
416-922-0566www.hasslefreeclinic.orgInternational — national & international
Directory · International
AASECT Referral Directory
Searchable directory of AASECT-certified sex therapists, counsellors and educators — useful when the issue needs a licensed clinician rather than a coach.
www.aasect.org/referral-directorySupport group · International
Recovering Couples Anonymous
12-step fellowship for couples rebuilding communication, trust and intimacy. Meetings are listed on their site; contact is through local groups.
recovering-couples.orgSupport group · International
Sex Addicts Anonymous
12-step fellowship for people recovering from compulsive or addictive sexual behaviour. Contact is through local meetings and intergroups.
saa-recovery.orgSupport group · International
S-Anon International Family Groups
12-step fellowship for partners, family and friends affected by someone else's compulsive sexual behaviour.
sanon.orgSupport group · International
Al-Anon Family Groups
Mutual-support meetings for family members and partners affected by someone else's drinking — often a factor underneath sexual and relational distance.
1-888-425-2666al-anon.orgHelpline · International
Postpartum Support International
HelpLine, peer support groups and resources for perinatal mood and anxiety disorders — for both parents, including partners.
1-800-944-4773postpartum.net/get-help/psi-helplineUnited States — national & international
Helpline · United States
National Domestic Violence Hotline
US 24/7 hotline connecting survivors to support, safety planning and local resources. Call, chat online, or text START to 88788.
1-800-799-7233www.thehotline.orgLooking for a coach or therapist instead?
If nothing here is a crisis and what you want is help with desire, communication or reconnection, start with the intimacy coach directory or the guide to choosing one.