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The body deserves better information
Arousal, anatomy, and unlearning the performance scripts that get in the way of feeling good.
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PleasureMay 2026
When Your Body and Your Brain Disagree About Arousal
Genital response and subjective desire correlate far less than people assume. Understanding that gap resolves a surprising amount of confusion and shame.
Foundations · 8 min read
PleasureApril 2026
Unlearning the Performance Script
Many people are not having bad sex. They are performing adequate sex while paying almost no attention to sensation. Here is how the script forms, and how to put it down.
Deep Dive · 9 min read